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Even women who explicitly support Asian men can be targeted by this group if their support is deemed insufficient. Nancy Wang Yuen, a professor of sociology at Biola University, was owmen because she advocated for others in addition to Asian men.

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Few Asian men speak out, knowing that the harassers turn on anyone who displeases them. One woman said a prominent Asian man Adult women want asian american dating gave her advice about harassment, but he said he would get heat if he got involved directly.

In another case, when an Asian man tweeted against the harassment of an Asian woman, the harassers contacted his workplace and asked to have him fired. Still others refuse to believe that the harassment is real: After I shared examples of harassment, some people tried to convince me that a white person sent the message to stir up intra-Asian infighting.

This could be a very long con — but it seems unlikely. Officially reporting the harassment often leads nowhere, leading many women to stay silent. Asians are not a monolith; we will inevitably disagree on particular opinions or pieces of work. But empathy and thoughtful conversation womeh be the goal, and the entire Asian community must work together to end the misogynist harassment that prevents it.

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